wgwriter ([info]wgwriter) wrote,
@ 2007-05-24 11:32:00
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Aw, shucks! And I predict a hit!

A flurry of good news!

First off, got a lovely end-of-the-year report from my daughter's preschool teacher. It begins with "X. excells in all areas of devlopment." It  goes up from there commenting on a range of things from her deep love of books to--get this--her INTEGRITY. "X. has a vast knowledge of people and issues in the environment that help form her solid sense of integrity." Or something like that. Lucky for you lj-ers that I don't have the report with me or I'd give you a full citation. Aren't proud parents like me insufferable?!

Secondly, we're moving. Goodbye to the interminable commute. Goodbye, I hope, to street violence. I feel a little guilty about the move. I'm leaving Santa Ana, but I don't intend to turn a blind eye to the social injustices I see around me. It seems that a lot privileged OC people want to pretend that the gardeners, maids, aids and nannies they hire on the cheap don't have to live somewhere in this overpriced region. Since 2004, 75% of loans in Santa Ana have been subprime. 80% of the city's residents are Mexican or Mexican American. Can you say modern-day red-lining?! The foreclosure signs are popping up all over like dandelions used to on my Virginia lawn.

Speaking of lawns, ours is in a bad way. Our failure to adjust has occured on many fronts--like the front of our house. Yikes! Every night now we announce, "time to waste Colorado's water," then dump gallons on the green. Or greenish brown. We replaced the dead azaleas in the back beds with native plants like Mexican lobelia, sunflowers, wild lilac and sage. Why don't more Californians use native plants? (Aren't pc know-it-alls like me insufferable?!) Well, wish us luck. We need to get the yard in shape before we leave.

Got some nice summer plans, including an arts workshop for the whole family and a camping trip to see the Sequoias. Originally I had planned to go back east for the entire summer. It's hard to describe the loss I've felt this year to folks who've never left their home region. I read lj entries like the one  <lj user = "jbknowles"> wrote about the bears on the road or look at <lj user = "cynthialord">'s husband's photos and feel a lump in my throat and a terrible longing for familiar greenery and running brooks. Ok, once or twice when looking at images of ice-covered everything I thought, "hey, short sleeves in February isn't so bad!" The robbery, the drive-by shooting, the hours lost behind the wheel have been stressful, but made much worse by the endless urban-suburban sprawl and palm-tree dotted brown vista that confronts me everyday. Gradually I've come to realize that I'd better find something pleasing about California because it appears that we are not going anywhere else anytime soon. So this summer is about discovery, about finding interesting things to do and places of beauty to offer me some consolation for my loss.

I got some writing done this week, but not enough. Before I get back to it, I want to mention a few books that I've recently read and liked. Two were recommendations from <lj user = "annemariepace">. Loved "A Drowned Maiden's Hair: A Melodrama" and "Journey to the River Sea." Read them! Also, has anyone heard of this book, "Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone?" I read it yesterday and thoroughly enjoyed it. I predict a hit!




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[info]bluemalibu
2007-05-24 07:41 pm UTC (link)
hurrah for your daughter!

hurrah for moving and new beginnings! :)

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[info]wgwriter
2007-05-24 08:55 pm UTC (link)
Thank you!

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[info]trishalynn
2007-05-24 07:58 pm UTC (link)
*snickers* I don't know you well enough to determine if that last bit was some hyperbole, and I'm not sure if I know you well enough to point you at a friend of mine who's writing a post-modern, pop-cultre-packed, satirical review of the first Harry Potter book. His take? Harry Potter books reviewed by someone who hates them. The best part is that he's got a lot of HP fans who love his reviews.

Congrats on X's success, and yay to you and your hubby for raising her with integrity. And to the teachers for recognizing it and appreciating it.

Good luck on the move.

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[info]wgwriter
2007-05-24 08:58 pm UTC (link)
Point away! I did enjoy the book, though. That part was no joke.

Are you coming west sometime this summer?

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[info]annemariepace
2007-05-24 07:58 pm UTC (link)
I'll have to see if I can find that Harry book you mentioned.

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[info]wgwriter
2007-05-24 08:59 pm UTC (link)
If you have any trouble finding it, you can always use interlibrary loan.

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[info]newport2newport
2007-05-24 08:47 pm UTC (link)
All best as you prepare for your move! I hope you find someplace better suited for your lifestyle and spirit.

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[info]wgwriter
2007-05-24 09:02 pm UTC (link)
Thank you! Fingers crossed.

Your entry on your recent visit to relatives in New England is another one of those that got me all choked up, damnit!

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[info]linbinwriter
2007-05-24 08:50 pm UTC (link)
Even though I don't know you,other than initial wise, I'm relieved that you're moving. Some fights are better waged from a safe distance, I think.

What a great teacher for recognizing all of those qualities in your daughter.A pre-schooler with integrity. That will be something to remind her about during her teenage years.

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[info]wgwriter
2007-05-24 09:05 pm UTC (link)
Thanks, linbin. Maybe we can meet up when I'm in next in NJ/NY.

Yeah, I was floored by the integrity comment. Not your run-of-the mill report card. X.'s teacher is good, with many years of experience and a nice rapport with all the kids.

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[info]kellyrfineman
2007-05-24 10:29 pm UTC (link)
I hear those Harry Potter books might just do okay, too. (Actually, I'm a total Potter geek and have read some of them an awful lot of times.) A Drowned Maiden's Hair is in my TBR pile.

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[info]dlgarfinkle
2007-06-09 03:40 am UTC (link)
We have great weather, great malls, great Mexican food, close access to the beach, the desert, the mountains and the city, the Getty, Disneyland, Seaworld, Hollywood, the San Juan Capistrano Mission, the Long Beach Aquarium, the Nixon Museum, the shops in Laguna Beach, the tidepools in Newport Beach...

I feel sad that you don't like So. CA. There are things I don't like about it, but others that I do. I've lived in Massachusetts, Berkeley, L.A., NYC, and Orange County. For every place I've lived, there've been drawbacks, but I was able to see some good in all of them.

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[info]wgwriter
2007-06-09 06:22 am UTC (link)
I see plenty that's good here--don't get me wrong. For starters, there's greater diversity than where we lived in Virginia. And I appreciate that there are more restaurants & attractions. It's just been a tough year. Practically every month there was some crime or incident--I mentioned only two but there were more--to compound my homesickness. But the biggest surprise, what I was trying to get at with this entry, has been the difficulty I've had adjusting to the physical environment. I don't miss sleet & humidity & mosquitos galore. I do miss the sound of rain on the roof, leaves changing color, frost on the windows, the first snowdrop in bloom, the smell of humus in Spring, green canopies overhead and fireflies. Things I took for granted which, apparently, are deep in my soul. If I were breaking up with California I might say something cheesy like, "It's me, not you."

I've lived in Chicago, NYC, Philadelphia and small cities in Virginia. Each place had its virtues and frustrations. I haven't written off So Ca--it's just not my ideal.

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